Oh...Lelaki

I was stunned when I heard about the assassination of Benazir Bhuto.... I feel sad and sorry especially to her children...keep on thinking on how difficult it will be to the children and others who love her...I understand about the phrase "yang hidup pasti akan mati"...but the way she died..definitely is not the way we want it to be...



Who did the shooting? I rasa I dah tau who is behind this tragedy... I dont want to comment about it..yang pastinya to me i am 100% sure the mastermind is a "man"...so agaknya the assassination of Benazir reflects "ketakutan lelaki" terhadap kebangkitan "wanita"....in a way it sounds funny coz men are gifted with 9 akal and 1 nafsu...atau bahasa mudah nya 9 rasional and 1 emosi....and yet they cannot find a more rational way to stop "kemaraan" Benazir....they choose the stupid and and coward way to stop her....kalau lah betul sangkaan I about the mastermind of the tragedy.....kesian nya pada lelaki lelaki yang ada sekarang ni ye....

2007...sayonara

I was more cautious when I started my 2007... perhaps during that time i somehow being influenced by my Chinese friends who believed 2007 might not be a good year especially in the financial aspects....

From january till september everything seems alright...rupanya ..the challenge start late.. towards the end of the year... My family and I tak putus -putus masuk spital.... so many problems... Virus fever lah...rotavirus lah...and last week my husband was admitted again...Even last night my sons were rushed to the dentist...complaining sakit gigi... Penatnya. I am physically, mentally and financially tired!!!...

anyway...hope 2008 willl bring more light to my family and I...tapi doubt jugak coz my second son dah start sekolah...knowing him...my life will not be easy...ha..ha..the challenge and pressure will be doubled if not tripled...

Maid...

This morning I was "insulted" by a remark made by someone about having maid at home... well may be that person does not fall in the category "paksa-rela" to get/have maid.. that's why she can bluntly ,insensitively,stupidly expressed her so called "clever comments" about having maid...

And because I cannot scream as loud as I want just now due to the fact that I am in the official surrounding... I think now is the best time for me to shout and scream telling every body outthere..if only i have a choice i pun tak nak ambik Maid.... Buang duit and inviting lots and tons of problems too...But the point is DO I HAVE ANY CHOICE????...

To my dearest friends and beloved colleague whose life are blessed with families around you yang everwilling to look after your children when you are out working...Don't you ever dare again to criticise on having maid at home in front of me...I am 100% confident that semua org tak nak buang duit...including me....BUT we have no choice.....personally i pun menghitung hari bila anak anak dah besar and I can say "NO" to Maid... la macam kempen tak bagi merokok la plak...

moral of the story... bila nak cakap pikior pikior le skit...jgn main sedap mulut je...

At last....

At last.... I managed to make this first posting to my blog.....he...he... dah lama den nak buat tapi banyak bebenor keroje nye...finally..today i put aside everything and start creating the "blog".. and here I am writing my first posting.......

why did i want to set up this blog? well... sometimes things are not like what you expect and sometimes you feel u need to talk to somebody BUT that somebody is not around....so i guess my reason in the most simple word is that I want to write what's inside my mind and heart without bothering others...ha..ha....