Yang tersurat dan yang tersirat...

Yesterday I got to know the whole story behind the "hindi series" ... That person informed (or may be updated ) me with the details including the name of the producer,director, co-director and the main actor/actress ...based on the clue given ..I can basically guess the source of the story (reliable source)...I was amazed with the information/details given to me...

I am not going to reveal anything here about the truth behind the "hindi series" as I myself has been pretty bored with this issue..but i just want to highlight that I have learned a lot about life and people while going through the "hindi series"...

Firstly,just to clarify things ..after what had happened my husband and I never ever make any attempt to find out about the story behind it (yang tersirat le ni)...but again unexpected things happen in life... We received many phone calls and e-mails from close friends and also new friends...and through the conversations they somehow inform us ...usually they put it in a very nice way... may be psychologically they do not want to burden us more with this issue..

But yesterday, this person explained clearly the story behind it (from A to Z)...why??.. this person felt that we need to know...we deserve to know...we should know...and we are very naive about what is happening around us... and it is time to wake us up!! he..he..

Now , What I have learned:
1) In life, some people ..they will do/use whatever ways just to make sure that they get what they want.
2) Machiavellianism and office politics seems to have relationship...this is interesting...my husband and I have carried out two research on Machiavellianism..but so far never thought to include office politic as one of the variables..may be this will be a good research prospect..he..he..
3) many of us "terlupa" about the judgment day..whatever kita buat kat dunia ni even sebesar hama pun akan di persoalkan kelak...
4) The "hindi series" incidents revealed to me clearly on my husband's principle in life...He said clearly to me "Jgn sesekali kita mengambil hak org lain hanya untuk memastikan kita dapat apa yang kita nak"..he said..even if we get what we want...kita tak dapat pastikan adakah org yang teraniaya itu menghalalkan apa yang telah kita ambil....
5) Keep on berdoa..muga both of us tak termasuk dalam golongan yang menganiayakan org lain...

Our feelings and reactions towards the story (yang tersirat):
1) Bohong le.. kalau cakap tak ada rasa marah , kecik hati and rasa amat tidak adil atas apa yang berlaku...
2) But we understand about concept "rezeki" ...
3) We also understand that decision making juga dipengaruhi oleh ethical ideology /theory yang banyak mempengaruhi the decision maker...

Inilah realiti kehidupan...dunia..dunia...he..he...